Have you noticed that now that Valentine’s Day is history you have made being in and demonstrating love a mystery? Your unexpected kisses have been kicked to the curve. The peace has passed away. Your loving words of encouragement and compassion have quickly crept away like a thief in the night.
But just because Valentine’s Day is over and you received (or did not receive) the gifts that you desired, should the love stop? No way! As Keith Sweat sings (or begs)…Don’t Stop Your Love!
Real love is more than an action. It is an attitude. It is universal. Love is unending. And most importantly, love is unconditional.
We tend to race to find love on a two way street of honesty, humility, communication and commitment. But then we quickly lose it on the highway of selfishness, loneliness, boredom or trying to live out other peoples’ expectations for our relationship.
However, you can find those loving feelings again when you:
• Think about what your life would be like without the one you love-Tomorrow is not promised, so cherish people and love them every single day.
• Refuse to allow life’s frustrations interrupt your communication-Life will always bring seasons of both joy and pain. Communicate your honest feelings with your loved one in both seasons no matter how painful.
• Implement the 3-“F” factors in your relationship-The 3-“ F” factors include faith, focus and fun. Have faith and believe the best about your loved one. Focus on maintaining healthy emotional and spiritual support towards your mate. Lastly, have fun with the one you love. A good laugh goes a long way.
If you have stumbled in your love walk towards your spouse, significant other or even family and friends, you can start to truly love again. When you truly have real love for someone, then every day should be special. Just because Valentine’s Day has passed, don’t stop your love but try to make it last forever.
Tanya White is a Freelance Writer, Relationship/Lifestyle Enhancement Coach/Author/Radio Host. For more information about Tanya’s writing, books or to be a guest on her radio show Real Talk With Tanya White, please visit http://www.tanyawhite.com/.
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved by Tanya White. Used with permission for Faith Filled Stilettos Online Magazine. Tweet this!
But just because Valentine’s Day is over and you received (or did not receive) the gifts that you desired, should the love stop? No way! As Keith Sweat sings (or begs)…Don’t Stop Your Love!
Real love is more than an action. It is an attitude. It is universal. Love is unending. And most importantly, love is unconditional.
We tend to race to find love on a two way street of honesty, humility, communication and commitment. But then we quickly lose it on the highway of selfishness, loneliness, boredom or trying to live out other peoples’ expectations for our relationship.
However, you can find those loving feelings again when you:
• Think about what your life would be like without the one you love-Tomorrow is not promised, so cherish people and love them every single day.
• Refuse to allow life’s frustrations interrupt your communication-Life will always bring seasons of both joy and pain. Communicate your honest feelings with your loved one in both seasons no matter how painful.
• Implement the 3-“F” factors in your relationship-The 3-“ F” factors include faith, focus and fun. Have faith and believe the best about your loved one. Focus on maintaining healthy emotional and spiritual support towards your mate. Lastly, have fun with the one you love. A good laugh goes a long way.
If you have stumbled in your love walk towards your spouse, significant other or even family and friends, you can start to truly love again. When you truly have real love for someone, then every day should be special. Just because Valentine’s Day has passed, don’t stop your love but try to make it last forever.
Tanya White is a Freelance Writer, Relationship/Lifestyle Enhancement Coach/Author/Radio Host. For more information about Tanya’s writing, books or to be a guest on her radio show Real Talk With Tanya White, please visit http://www.tanyawhite.com/.
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved by Tanya White. Used with permission for Faith Filled Stilettos Online Magazine. Tweet this!
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